Work together
and offerings

Deep, relational, embodied
guidance for transformation

Work together
and offerings

Deep, relational, embodied
guidance for transformation

Work together
and offerings

Deep, relational, embodied
guidance for transformation

Sometimes we sense it’s time for change, even if we don’t know what that looks like yet. Often, what keeps showing up in your life points to what’s ready to be seen. The list below isn’t about labeling or diagnosing. It’s here to help you recognize the deeper patterns that may be asking for your attention.

 

Do you recognize yourself in this?

  • Always striving to improve, but it never feels like enough.
  • Disconnected from your body, your boundaries, your sensuality, or your heart.
  • Craving real intimacy but unsure how to let others in.
  • Struggling to speak up for yourself, even when something feels off.
  • Fearing you’re “too much,” so you shrink or stay quiet.
  • Getting triggered in relationships and unsure how to repair the disconnection.
  • Avoiding conflict to keep the peace and abandoning your own needs.
  • Longing for closeness but pushing people away.
  • Holding it together while overwhelmed inside.
  • Quick to critique but sensitive to feedback.
  • Unsure who you are underneath all the roles.
  • Still feel stuck, even after doing a lot of inner work.
  • Wanting to let go of the past but feeling unable to and worrying about the future

If you recognize yourself in this, know this: You’re not alone. These experiences often point to deeper dynamics that are asking for your attention. This work welcomes all of it with presence and care.

How We Work

 

We slow down. We listen deeply. Together we explore the roots of your patterns; what they protect, where they began, and how they still show up.

As you meet yourself with clarity, new choices become possible that are grounded in truth.

How We Work

 

We slow down. We listen deeply. Together we explore the roots of your patterns; what they protect, where they began, and how they still show up.

As you meet yourself with clarity, new choices become possible that are grounded in truth.

Curious about the methods I use?

What to Expect

 

This is trauma-informed, relational, embodied work. It asks you to show up with honesty and presence, for what’s real- even when it’s uncomfortable.

I bring clarity, compassion, and the depth that comes from walking this path myself and supporting others through it. This work helps you release what no longer serves and relate to yourself and others from a place of inner alignment, rather than performance. It’s deep, it’s human, and it meets you exactly where you are.

Ready to Get Real?

Become Real and Real Together are my offerings for relational healing, and living more truthfully. It’s where lasting change begins, one step at a time.

“Working with Sandra helped me take responsibility for my growth, my relationships — and live more from my truth.”

Anja S.

Ready to Get Real?

Become Real and Real Together are my offerings for relational healing, and living more truthfully. It’s where lasting change begins, one step at a time.

“Working with Sandra helped me take responsibility for my growth, my relationships — and live more from my truth.”

Anja S.

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The offerings

Become Real – The personal journey

Become Real: transform into your most authentic self

A personalized 1:1 process for deep healing and inner freedom, so you can stop fixing yourself, stop running in circles, and start living with clarity and honesty.

Over 12 weeks (3 months), we uncover the patterns that keep you stuck, release the thoughts and feelings that drain your energy, and establish the inner calm and clarity you need to face challenges and embrace what’s good in your life with more ease.

 

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You’ll learn to relate to yourself and the people in your life with more authenticity, and build a way of living that feels clear, grounded, and real.

You’ll learn to:

  • Let go of the urge to “fix” yourself and discover what’s already true within you
  • Release looping thoughts and emotions that keep you stuck
  • Relate to yourself and the people in your life with honesty and depth
  • Step into choices and actions that reflect your real values

What’s included:

  • 12 x 75-minute 1:1 sessions (weekly over 3 months)
  • Ongoing support via mobile/email between sessions
  • Bonus options such as TRE, microdosing, couple’s sessions and more
  • A follow-up session after the program ends
  • Single sessions available for continued support after the program ends
  • Sessions online (Zoom) or in Bussum (NL)
Real Together – Couple’s workshop

Real Together: rediscovering love, connection and freedom

This 3-month program brings hidden patterns and dynamics to light; the ones that keep your relationship stuck in the same cycles. You’ll learn to approach conflict with care, take responsibility, and resolve challenges with relational skill. Together, you’ll rediscover intimacy, deepen connection, and grow a partnership rooted in honesty and real love.

 

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This program helps you clarify what truly matters in your relationship and gives you the tools to navigate difficulties in a respectful, skillful way, so your relationship can support and strengthen you both.

You’ll learn to:

  • Move beyond the same relationship struggles that keep showing up
  • Resolve conflict and take responsibility for their part
  • Relate in a respectful, mature, and loving way
  • Support each other’s needs with more skill and care
  • (Re)discover appreciation, intimacy, and love

What’s included:

  • 6 x 90-minute sessions over 3 months
  • Ongoing support via mobile/email between sessions
  • A follow-up session after the program ends
  • Single sessions available for continued support after the program ends
  • Sessions online (Zoom) or in Bussum (NL)
Core Session – A Deep Dive

One powerful two-hour session for individuals or couples to move straight to the heart of what’s keeping you stuck. This intensive gives you clarity, perspective, and a way forward.

 

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In a Core Session, we dive straight into what matters most. Together we uncover the urgent underlying pattern or dynamic that shape your challenge, bringing it into the open where it can shift and giving you tools to move forward.

Whether you come on your own or with your partner, you’ll leave with greater insight, new perspectives, and concrete next steps.

You’ll learn:

  • Recognize the root of the pattern that keeps you stuck
  •  Find clarity and direction without needing a long process
  • Use practical tools to move forward with more eas

What’s included:

  • 1x 120 minutes coaching session with the option to include embodiment or release work.

Investment & Accessibility

 

One or two days of deep, accelerated healing and embodied integration. Held in Bussum (Netherlands) or at a location we choose together.

This intensive one-on-one retreat (individual or couple) offers space for:
• Emotional release and nervous system regulation
• Relational repair, deepened communication & energetic integration
• Clarity, recalibration, and returning to your true self

Perfect for major life transitions, deep inner work, or when you’re ready for profound shift.
Couples retreats include an intake and a follow-up session. Each retreat is personalized and intuitively guided.

 

Let’s explore together